We all seem to be in a hurry in whatever we do. More so as life today has become fiercely competitive and we want to achieve our goals before anyone else does. But in this frenzy our mind gets clouded with tension and negative thoughts and our ability to think gets severely weakened thereby losing the goal itself.
However the quote below makes me wonder whether such wisdom can work in a world of fleeting opportunities where speed is the mantra to winning?
A leader in a hurry is bound to make mistakes or achieve short-term wins but a leader who analysis the situation and plans well before execution will provide sustainable and robust results. No wonder leaders with high levels of emotional intelligence (EI) are considered to be better than leaders with high IQ levels and low EI. The former has the ability to remain calm in highly stressful and volatile situations thus validating the wisdom of Lao Tzu ( 601 BC to 531 BC) even in present times. In Lao Tsu’s words ~
“Do you have the patience to wait,
Till your mud settles and the water is clear?
Can you remain unmoving,
Till the right action arises by itself?”
Do share your views dear readers on the relevance of Patience not only in today’s fast moving business world but also in our own family relationships.
lovely write up! The modern life forces us to lose our patience. It does take extra effort to be patient! Mankind was not meant to live fast paced life but here we are.
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That’s so true my friend. However we can always try and practice patience. Regards😀
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True 🙂
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I love these words which I have read this morning as we await the birth of Grand baby twins. They will come when they choose to and when they are ready. This is what I keep telling my son and his beautiful wife! 🙂
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I am delighted to know that soon you would be a proud grand mom of beautiful twins. And you are right we can connect quite easily with the wisdom of the quote in such times. 🙂
Regards.
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Yes but what exactly IS patience?
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Believing that the answer will come.
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Indeed, Allah is with the patient….Surah Al-Baqarah [2:153]
Happy weekend n stay blessed 🙂
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Yes of course Allah is with the patient …Shukriya! 💐
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Buon mercoledì ❤
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Grazie il mio amico e vi auguro tutta la felicita 💐
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Patience is a virtue. Can’t beat those words. 🙂 Thanks for the reminder.
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Hi Sheth so nice to hear from you after long. Glad you too believe in the virtues of patience. Bye and see you around.
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Good to be back here, as always. See you around. 🙂
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🙂 🙂
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I believe we must let Nature and even Fate do their own job… sometimes things and achievements are certainly a matter of time… Great post, my friend. Sending love and best wishes. Aquileana ⭐️
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Thanks Aquileana nice thoughts. When we let Nature take its own course the outcomes are often beautiful. But one must have faith in natures processes.
With fond regards and best wishes.
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I so agree! Each time I hear everybody honking I wonder what is the big hurry everybody seems to be in!
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You are so right Astha so perhaps the best option is to stop wondering and keep your window glasses- up 😀
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And thanks aplenty for stopping by! Would love to reciprocate your call.
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So true!
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Patience is quite the virtue. Unfortunately, each of us naturally possess different levels of this treasure … yet, levels can increase through learning about self.
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Spot on dear Frank looking within is a sure way of knowing our true self. It’s been long since I visited your blog but will do so in the near future.
Bye and take care. 😀
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Hope all is well with you.
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Thanks I am quite fine. Presently a bit more busy than usual but do find to play regular golf 😃
Regards.
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Good … and golf season is upon us here (although in a bit of a cold trend at the moment).
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And its so hot here these days. But the game goes on 🙂
Wishing some warmer weather!
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Oh no … I’ve awaken on my Saturday morning to find a coating of snow on the ground!
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WWW – Wait Watch with Wonder!
Just Wait and Watch for what you’ve been waiting and the end result will bring a great surprise to you. Sometimes, the wait is worth!
I experience this often and its magical
Sahajo 🙂
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What a lovely response Sahajo I am so glad you have experienced the marvel of patience personally. I guess your interest in spiritual pursuits has helped.
Nice hearing from you and wish you and yours the best of everything. 😀
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I recently heard the phrase “hurry up and wait.” Your post reminded me of it! The world certainly is in a hurry lately but I do wonder where they really are going, in the long run? I am sending you a big hug 🙂
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Ha ha I like that one ‘hurry up and wait’ it’s so true. It’s good engage ourselves in creative pursuits which slows us effortlessly.
Trust you are doing very well Christy. Will look you up soon and hugs back to you 🙂
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Lao Tsu’s words are wise. They imply that if just wait, the right action WILL arise “by itself.” That can be hard to believe sometimes, so I do struggle with patience.
The Quakers have a similar saying “Way will open.”
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Oh that’s a lovely Quaker saying Bill. I feel instead of struggling with patience we could ‘Believe’ and the ‘The way will open’! 😀
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Very relevant in today’s world.
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Patience is the key to everything in life..though I am myself not patient, but I want to be..
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Ha ha you are quite right it is not easy to exercise patience especially when everyone around is in a mad hurry. Anyways let’s try n try 😀
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Ni hao Dilip!
When I was a teenager I came across the quote “Everything comes to she(he) that waits”; and I thought it rather stupid. However with the wisdom (?) of 60+ years I realise that there is a lot of truth in it. Be calm, be patient – everything will come in its own good time!
BTW have just spent two fabulous weeks in India staying with my daughter, son-in-law and young grandsons who are living in Bengalaru. Your country is amazing!!
Zai jian, Jo
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No Hao Jo delighted you enjoyed Bangalore and more so with family. Bangalore is a lovely place with good weather.
Re: patience you are in China a place of illustrious past where the famous Lao Tsu and other Chinese philosophers wisdom on patience and related wisdom is practiced all over the world. I wonder if today’s China follows their teachings in real life.
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That is so true, a wonderful message to remind us to take things slowly and peacefully 🙂
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So nice of you to appreciate. Yes we all need such reminders. Cheers 😀
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My New Year’s resolution this year was to meditate more often. The more I meditate the more patience I have. The more patience I have the more loving I am. Patience is a virtue! 💗
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That’s a very beautiful response from you. Good to know you can actually feel the peace and love as a result of meditation. I too am regular in my meditation and breathing practices. Yes Patience is a virtue and as Ralph Emerson says ~ “Adopt the pace of nature: her secret is patience”.
Kind regards!
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I’m working on it every day! Namaste.
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So nice to know that – best wishes coming your way from India. Namaste 🙂
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Happy weekend HUGS by Simona 🙂
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Grazie mille cara Simona. Alcuni fiori per voi. 💐
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Grazie a Te ❤
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This reminds me of a ‘prayer’ I once read, “Lord give me patience, but please hurry. ” 🙂
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Ha ha ha I love that humor 🙂 🙂
Thank you and best regards.
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that’s so true!
just we are often too inpatient…
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Welcome to my blog 🌹you are right most of us are impatient and so all the more reason for us to let go the hurry.
Thanks and kind regards.
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Indeed Dilip this such a powerful quote and we all have experienced it on some point of time in our life. Yes, we are in a hurry and we become restless and invite problem, if we keep our nerves and thoughts in place and allow the things to happen on which we have not control is the best way to handle things in life. Agree in today’s world everything is put on the accelerator mode…
Thanks for reminding, our mind needs reinforcement.
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Hey Nihar good to hear from you and I’m glad you too endorse the value of Patience in an inpatient world.
Would like to catch-up on your blog. Bye till then 🙂
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So it is, my dear friend. Thank you for another insightful post, dear Dilip.
Happy Losar – New Moon – Monday and week! 🙂
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Thanks dear Marina for the appreciation. I checked the Wikipedia and interestingly found that Losar means Tibetan New Year. And yes 8th Feb indeed was a beautiful New Moon. 🙂
Cheers and much regards.
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Hi Dilip,
Long time no see.Where do you find these wise thoughts? Your commentators are as fast as any one.
You have almost pushed some of us in the “Witness Box”
Coming to the point: – Patience is indeed an art but artists are born & not made.
I for one had zero patience & many well wishers told me to cultivate it. Till I joined the GITA class.
Today I think (?) I have learnt to be patient .Better late than never I know “Wakt se pehale aur naseeb se jada nahi milta.” In fact one doesnot need it either.
SUHAS
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Dear Suhas it’s great reading your apt response. However I always believed you to be a role model of patience but perhaps it’s your study and interest in GITA which helped you. Very inspiring my friend.
Thank you so much for your kind visit. Regards.
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Wise words we need to adhere to dear Dilip.. Sometimes we need to slow down and withdraw from that rat-race and seek Sanctuary within our own thoughts .. Having Patience with ourselves and just taking time out to reflect often lends clarity..
We need to be clear within our thoughts before we Rush into this ever fast moving world..
Great advice dear Dilip Thank you my friend 🙂
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My deepest apologies dear Sue for this belated reply due to a unpardonable oversight. 😦
I am sure you are way ahead in Patience than most folk. And this is perhaps due to the time you spend with nature in awareness. May I share this beautiful quote by Ralph Emerson ~ “Adopt the pace of nature: her secret is patience”.
Be well and every joyful. Regards Dilip
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Dearest Dilip, please do not chastise yourself for the delay.. I know how easily among comments some become lost.. And I too have not been on line for several days, so I am delayed in answering you 🙂 Thank you for the Quote.. And I have been out in nature adopting her secret many times she has taught me these great lessons 🙂
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That’s truly gracious of you dear Sue. And good to know you have been spending some quality time learning the ways of Nature our true teacher. Its only a perceptive and aware mind who can learn from Nature’s quietude.
Cheers 🙂
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🙂 indeed she is a great teacher xx
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🙂 cheers xx
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Patience, as a building block of character, will continue to hold its relevance for all time, Dilip, regardless of the increasing pace of life, mandating appropriate gestation periods for events and developments, inventions and discoveries, and everything relative to a continually evolving life.
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Good to hear from you Raj. I agree with you entirely on the value of patience in character and personality development. When I look back I remember with respect and admiration the people who exercised patience even in most stressful situations.
Thanks Raj and best wishes always.
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Even to stop, read this and then ponder over it we need patience. I read this post and that is what I did first. It is so true. Patience is seldom found these days.
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That’s a very sweet response Rangelz. Sending you some flowers 💐😀
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Thank you 🙂
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🙂
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Takes a long time to learn. I don’t think people are born with patience. As for the speed at which the world is changing… I have a feeling we will pay. –Curt
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You are right Curt it does take long as it’s an uphill journey. It’s hard because Patience comes only to those who let go their ego and their illusion of control. The speed of change is fast but it’s direction needs correction. In our rampant pursuit of weath and mega bucks we ignore the earths dwindling resources. And no thought is given to their conservation.
Cheers will be in touch. Regards.
Dilip
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There is much good happening out there, Dilip. I am in no way a luddite. We have the potential of a future where we can eliminate much poverty and illness, and maybe even where we can set humanity’s mind free to soar. But we have to learn to mitigate the bad stuff. I am not sure we will ever eliminate self-interest, or am I even sure we should, but I believe deeply in enlightened self-interest, in the need to understand the consequences of our actions and behave accordingly. –Curt
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Oh yes we have some voluntary non governmental organizations which are doing excellent work to make uneducated or jobless people to become economically independent.
It is absolutely normal to have self-interest as long as it not causing harm to the other. If we can’t look after ourselves how can we take care of a larger community?
Thanks Curt and best regards.
Dilip
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” An ounce of patience is worth a pound of brains”…..A saying . Dilip ji, a fast moving world for sure but where to, in which direction. I feel that’s the question to ponder. This fast , mad rush is not leading us to anywhere worth while.
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That’s a beautiful quote Namita ji it further strengthens the virtues of patience. Its true that a man in a mad rush is indeed a lost one as he has no control on his mind thus leading to road rage. However I do look for opportunities to test myself in patience. For e.g., living in a city where people on the road are always in a mad rush if I notice a person wanting to cut across from the wrong side I stop and allow him the right of way – oh the effect on him is magical he smiles back sheepishly and acknowledges his mistake 🙂 🙂
Regards!
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That is a wonderful way of putting across what’s right.
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How nice of you to appreciate I feel encouraged. Regards.
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Patience it seems, is a dying art. Everyone wants everything right now, if not yesterday. I’m not sure if we can get off this fast paced world we live on, but waiting for something certainly makes us value it more.
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Oh yes that’s true but I thought patience is a dying art only in my part of the world due to our huge population and crowded roads.
But for those of us who are aware of its virtues we could practice it rather than join the rat (not wombie) race. 🙂
Trust you doing well Peter and much love to Binky and the wombies. 🙂
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Thank you, Dilip. I hope you are doing well, too.
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Patience is a virtue, indeed, but I often fail in the test. 😦 I try hard though each time… 😀
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Oh yes its a virtue worth developing. Good to know you are trying too 🙂 We can actually feel the inner joy each time we pass the test of our patience.
Thanks and regards 🙂
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Those who can enjoy the race while they strike gold are the lucky few. Others of course need patience.
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Very well put Somali yes there are folks who have the can tread both the worlds. However such an ability to a person who surrenders the ego and is able to let go at the right time.
Thanks and regards.
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I am actually guilty of being too patient especially with people and relationships. I have heard people tell me that might not be the right thing to do at all times but I stand by patience. That might not really be favorable all the time but patience and forgiveness sure gives you more peace in life 🙂
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Spot on Jan I feel patience with awareness will always be a winner in the long run. It must never be mistaken for servitude.
Thanks and regards. 🙂
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I am guilt too of not being Patient, but i am learning it through Instagram these days!
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Ha Ha Alok I too have been highly competitive and a man in hurry. But looking back I wonder whether the success was at the cost of a stressful life? Now I know I should have had much more patience.
Thanks and regards.
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Many of us are in the same boat, blame it on social media. If we realize, we still won’t be late.
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